You have way too many services running now. The DSC should reside on only one machine or be switched to clustered mode. If you don't have a cluster license, there is no use running two QVS because sooner or later one will shut down (using the same license isn't allowed) Two QMS services will wreak havoc for sure because they will each manage their own task database and try to pull the Distribution Service in their direction (probably the cause of tasks going haywire)
on server srv-its-qview, stop all services except QVWS and QVS
on server srv-its-qview2, stop all services except for QMS, DSC and the Reloadengine (QDS = Distribution Service).
then reconfigure the entire set-up in your single QMC.