i think i solved this one myself, but maybe someone else encounter this problem sometime in the future.
For my Dimension i created a ValueList('question1','question2') and so on for as many question that i have. and also SurveyID as a second dimension.
In my expressions i put
for my x-axis and y-axis.
Instead of the numbers 3 and 5, I am instead using the average number from the answers. So for my x-axis expressions will be Avg(satisfactionquestion1) Avg(satisfactionquestion2), and for the y-axis Avg(importanceQuestion1) Avg(importancequestion2).
If that make any sence at all? I am happy anyway because my scatter chart is now working the way I wanted it to!