it would be better if you can create a computed dimension that has day number (1..7) this will of course depend on a starting date which will be day 1.
load the increment first, then just do a NOT EXIST on the computed date field that will load only the ones that arent in the incremental.
if you cant create the computed DAY field in your incremental file, thats fine you can compute it at the time you load your incremental file and then save that new field in the final QVD. when loading the final QVD just do a where not exist (DAYField, <expression here>)